Thursday, December 10, 2009

Why do I keep getting a BFN if my period is so late?

I am almost 2 weeks late and every test say negative? Whats wrong? I am always REGULAR. My periods are like clockwork and come on every month on the same date! This is the closest I have been in a whole year and I keep getting BFNs! I am not stressed (excited) so I know that is not it! What else could it be?



Why do I keep getting a BFN if my period is so late?performing show



I was 3 1/2 weeks late before I got my BFP. In fact, I had a negative blood test just 3 days before I got my BFP. You could have skipped due to stress or other factors, but I would act like you were pregnant until you see a second line in the window or blood on the TP. Good luck and baby dust!



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You should see your doctor, you might have an ovarian cyst or other condition causing you to be late.
It honestly sounds like you're stressed to me. Any woman would be if they were two weeks late but didn't know the reasoning for it, especially if they have a regular cycle. Try to calm down. And try to not test for awhile either.



You could always go to the doctor for a blood test. They are more accurate than your HPTs.
you probably aren't pregnant. Even if you have perfect cycles it's normal for them to go haywire every now and then. If you are really concerned talk to your Dr. about it. They could find out if there is an underlying problem or give you a hcg blood test to find out what (if anything) is wrong.
get a blood test.....sometimes the period could be late for no reason so a blood test by now would confirm whether you're pregnant or not. Hope this helps!
go call your doctor and make an appt. for blood test.

I am thinking of getting a yorkshire terrier again. is it too late now?

i used to have a pet dog very very long time back during the 1960's, but unfortunately the dog got run over by a car and died. The car driver never stopped and continued going. After that i was so much full of grief that i never again bought another pet dog. It was a cute yorkshire terrier that got run over by car. I still have his very old black and white picture.



Now almost 4 decades, i feel like getting a yorkshire terrier again. is it too late now and i should forget it?



i'm not able to decide because i feel that if i get a new yorkie it would not be fair to the one that got run over by car 40 years back and that his soul may not forgive me. I don't know why i feel that way.



I am thinking of getting a yorkshire terrier again. is it too late now?comedy show



Fill YOUR VOID, and get a little Yorky,.. in memory of your past dog,.. it would be an honour to him.



I am thinking of getting a yorkshire terrier again. is it too late now?greek theater opera theater



i think he would want u to move on and be happy if he was a true dogs best friend. he wouldnt want u to grieve. move on and get another dog. not to replace him but to fill a void n ur life for the want and need of a dog. but alway remember that special place n ur heart for ur late yorkie.
its not too late. your other dog wouldnt be mad at you it would be happy because you would have a companion that was making you happy the way he used to
I think that this is completely up to you, but I'm sure that your former companion would not begrudge you the comfort of having another buddy. It's never too late to have a best friend, just make sure that you make plans for if you're not around to care for the dog at some point.
Get the new dog! When I had to put my beloved dog down 7 years ago, I swore I would never get another dog. I missed her so much and I didn't want to be disloyal. But a friend gave me a puppy who turned out to be the best therapy ever for my grief.



That puppy became my best friend and remained so until she died of an inoperable brain tumor last March. Again I SWORE I would never get another dog. But I so missed my best friend and after talking to my vet, I was convinced that getting a new dog would actually be honoring my sweet girl's memory. What a compliment to her that I loved her so much and thought she was so wonderful that she made me want another dog to love. Now I have a 9 month old boxer puppy who I love desperately. I will NEVER forget my other dogs. I loved them each with my whole heart. But how great it is to have my new companion!



Please allow yourself to feel the love for another dog. It is the best thing in the world.
Its not to late, its never to late =).
After all this time, you should be able to share youself again with another friend. But at your age, make sure that you make arrangements for your friend should you get seriously ill , or God forbid, pass away.
its not like that if your dog loved you wouldnt it want you to be happy? let me tell you it is a great idea to get another yorkie me personaly i am a dog person and in my life i have had 4 labs and i cant really live without a dog and labs are my fav breed so why rob myself of joy by not having a dog? i dont see much sence in that... and btw yorkies... my 2nd fav breed! love em!! wonderful dogs get one =D
If you feel ready for another pet, its not too late. Each person has to grieve a loss in their own way. You were not ready to accept another Yorkie then.. but if you are now, go for it!



I think that your previous Yorkie would like to see you happy. He knows you are a good owner and will give the new one lots of love. What happened to him was an accident, it was not your fault.



Try adoption www.petfinder.com .. when you adopt, you save a life!
ABC you trippin... you better get another dog and put the same love for your old dog, into your new one. Just this time, dont let it out the house without the leash...glad i could help!
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I hope that linked worked- you can see it's a question that I asked and the responses that I received. My heart goes out to you and damn the bastard that caused you such grief who was a coward and did not have the courage to apologise to you.



You clearly loved your dog- don't grief but feel lucky that you were able to spend time with him, even if it was for a short while, be thankful and be glad that you know you have given him a good life and that God took him away from you because he needed a beautiful dog angel to show those poor abandoned, mistreated and tortured animals what love is.



I strongly believe that your dog is up there looking at you and grieves when you grieve, he wished that he could change things as he never wants to see you be upset. He wants to love you and he can at an emotional level but as much as he wishes, he can't be by your side licking your hand just to show how much he loves you.



He is sorry that he had to leave and he is trying to tell you that he wants you to feel the love that he wanted to continue to give you.



I am sure he wants you to get another dog, ideally even adopt one rather than buying one (you know that mills dogs suffer terribly- so please don't support that and adopt a dog instead of buying a pup -the mill dogs there suffer and suffer ). I don;t know how old you are but there is nothing worst in the world than a dog being all alone because their owners are too ill to look after them- so if appropriate, make alternative arrangements just in case. I mean hey I am only 25 but touch wood, who knows what will happen tomorrow so I have made it clear to my boyfriend that I want him and my family to look after my dogs should something happen (touch wood)!



Love does not end because you are no longer physically connected, rather that love can continue to grow in your heart. You dog doesn't want to see you upset and he knows that you are capable of great love and wants you to love and care for another dog just as you did with him. Dogs are not jealous nor selfish, he wants another dog to live a good life- of course not too take his place but to be there to comfort you.



Who knows- depending on what religion you are, maybe your dog has reincarnated to be the new dog that you are thinking of getting- regardless my point is- your dog would not think this way- dogs are the most generous creatures on earth. So get another dog provided you can love and care for him/her like you had with your other dog.



To 2wesite- that is a terrible thing, what pain and suffering and panic the dog must have gone through while it was dying, as she frantically tried to get the bag off- I think that you should have been more careful to make sure nothing is left on the ground and to teach your children, I mean after all who throws empty bags on the floor anyway? I don't pity you, you are the author of your own misfortunes, I feel very sorry for your dog.
No one can judge how you're feeling inside. Many, many years ago my stepdaughter left an empty potato chip bag on the floor and we came home to a dead dog. She had gotten her head into the bag to get the crumbs and suffocated - our family was heartbroken. This was an entirely preventable accident, I still think about it. We've had other dogs since, still have two and for us us it wasn't an option to live without our dogs, they are so much a part of our lives. Everyone grieves differently when they lose a pet and the fact that you are now thinking about another probably means you are ready. Good luck.

How do I go about getting my debts paid off when they just kept adding on late fees...?

I am living on my own and I am disabled. I live off of social security. My bills are piling up and I do not see any end in sight. My health is getting worse with these extra worries. How do I go about getting my bills paid. I want to pay them, but I get one check a month and it only goes so far. With the late fees I am always behind. Example: I have a credit card. I only owed $90 on it. Now with the late fees I owe $150 on it. Please help!!!! No bad comments please.



How do I go about getting my debts paid off when they just kept adding on late fees...?events



If you don't own your own home, and you're in the US, you could just stop paying them altogether. There's a law here that says creditors can't attach social security, so if you just don't pay, they really have no recourse against you unless your loan is secured.



The other options...call the credit companies. Most will put you on a repayment plan, and agree to dropping the late fees and will usually either reduce or eliminate the interest altogether if they understand you're on social security. They'll do this because they know that without your willingness to pay, they will get absolutely nothing due to the social security laws.



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Call a bill consolidation service. They might be able to help. You might also call a credit counselor. If these people can't help, they might know of someone that can.



Good luck, debt sucks.
Call each credit card company.



Ask them for help.



Ask them to give you the lowest interest rate they can.



Ask them to give you a monthly amount that you can afford.



Ask them to please reconsider the late fees. - and do this with your highest credit card company that you owe, and with the highest interest rate - FIRST!



Ask them to understand that you are asking for a reasonable accommodatin for someone with diabilities.



Ask them to please understand that you are trying as best you can, and you need and want their help.



If they don't listen, ask immediately to speak with a Supervisor, and start all over with your questions.



Try to get help with your local State welfare office, and you may be entitled to food stamps, and other State benefits.



Call the local churches and ask them for any help they have, and some have organizations that could help you.



Ask for help from your utility company as they have benefits for those who need help with payments.



GOD bless us one and all, always.



MBA-Boston Univ.



CPA-retired
The first thing you should do is seek out some local professional advice - in the UK we have the citizens advice bureau and the national debt helpline who offer free assistance.



In principal, you should get in contact with your creditors - at the moment you are probably just an account number which is processed automatically - make yourself known.



Most lending institutions want you to manage your debt (in the UK, they are obliged to help you), so when making contact, tell them you are having problems meeting the payments, ask for a freeze on interest and charges, ask them for time to pay and finally, suggest a realistic payment period - even $5 a month is fine as long as you can afford it and as long as you can show why it is all you can afford.



The first letter should ask to establish a voluntary payment agreement. Assuming they agree, you will then probably be asked to suggest a payment and perhaps submit a short summary of your income and outgoings.



Deal with it in writing and tell them that - firstly it gives you more time; secondly, it gives you an opportunity to think about the questions they will ask. Also, if they ever have to go to court to get an order, the written correspondence will prove your good intentions and make it difficult to show you as a bad debtor. Remember, if you are not intending to default on payment, it is much harder to treat you as such.



The downside is that your credit card will be of no use until it is paid off (although if you use it for essential services, they may agree to a limited facility).



Hope that helps.
I like answer #3 - beware of trusting just any credit counselor - they don't do this stuff for free. The local banking community in my area jumped on board to help people because of the amount of abuse with this type of service. Good luck
You should call your local Trustee's Office tomorrow.....you can't file bankruptcy of any kind w/out completing a financial education class. The Trustee will provide you a list of approved classes.....You need to take it and then when you decide IF Bankruptcy is the way to go, you are ready to file.....



However, if your total debt is less than 5K, I'd pay them off......since your credit is already destroyed.....why don't you just pay on ONE card (smallest balance first) all the money you can, then after that is paid off....put all your efforts into the next card....



Those accounts are probably closed for constant late pymts anyway, so if your goal is just to get them paid off, who cares if you focus on one card at a time - the damage is already done.



Further, you should also call each creditor - and politely ask them to waive the late fees for a finite period of time...(this won't work if you don't make any monthly payment to them).....
Claim Bankruptcy.

LADIES: What is the best contraceptive? Getting married next month.Is it too late in the game to be

I don't want to get pregnant right now and he doesn't want to have to wear a cond*m, but will if he has to. Which method is the best for both of us? Since we're getting married next month, is it too late for it (i.e., The Pill) to work? Help!



LADIES: What is the best contraceptive? Getting married next month.Is it too late in the game to be effective?ballet



Conceptrol inserts. Goes in like a tampon. It's a little messy but doesn't require planning (like using a diaphram) and it's not as bad as foam. You can start immediately after it's inserted so no waiting like with the contraceptrive film.



Congrats on your upcoming wedding.



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no its not to late. use the pill but ask your doc about it or the pharmisist.
I have found that the pill is the best - particularly the standard 28 day pill.



They say to wait 2 months for the pill to go in to effect.



Your best bet would be to schedule an appointment with your OB/GYN to discuss more options with you.
its probably not a good idea to try the pill. most pills take 3 months to be effective. you can take the morning after pill. You could also get the shot which has been every effective for my sister. The best thing about the shot is you only have to go every three months to get a shot. no forgetting just write it on the calender.
If you are good at remembering to take the pill..... start as soon as you can. My sister did the Depo shot but gained 35 pounds. You could have an IUD inserted. Talk to your GYN. When I started the pill a few years ago before my husbands vasectomy my GYN told me to I did not have to use anything else since you start the pill the Sunday after your period starts or on Sunday if that is the day you start your period and it takes 7 days to get into your system. There are so many different kinds of pills out there I do not remember what it was called.



Even if you are told to use alternate forms of birth control for a few weeks after you start the pill, your husband would only have to use condoms for a short time.



Congratulations and Best Wishes.



PS.... I took the pill EXACTLY as I was supposed to and 17 months after I started it we found out about baby #5!! IT IS NOT 100%
Generally, it takes about a month for birth control pills to work. I would definitely suggest getting on either pills, patch, or even the depo shot. Talk to your doc about which would be most beneficial to you. In the meantime, you may want to use a condom for that extra assurance. They do have other over-the-counter methods (for women) in the condom section. You may find that helpful. Good luck!
The safe period of the pill is one month. The pill does work if you create a strict discipline of taking it every day at the same hour. If you choose the pill always have them in the one purse you always use. Set your cellphone to beep at an hour you are comfortable (830pm works for me). First month you may stain a bit but it's normal. Go to a family planning clinic, or to your doctor. Try to do this as quick as possible. There's also the ring. Do not know the name, maybe nuva ring or something. I do not know if the effects are immediate. I really suggest you talk to a doctor or family planning specialist. You can always try the diaphragm. Do tell your boyfriend to take it easy, i mean, if you are going to get married, at first you can use condom, and as soon as it is safe with only pills or whatever contraceptive you choose, then go bare. If you are getting married, i assume is forever, so, can't he wait a month or a couple of weeks to go bare? Better to use a condom while it isn't safe, than to have a baby in the first year of marriage. Hope it works out!
I was on Ortho-tricyclen for 8 years and loved it. I went off of it and it took me only 4 months to get pregnant. Soon after I delivered I went on Depo and hated it. I spotted for 6 weeks and when I went off it I didn't have a normal period for 3 months.



At that time I started the Nuva ring which I really like and am currently using. There are many options out there. What works best for you may not work best for someone else. I also looked at webmd to make my choice based on my needs.



Congratulations on your upcoming wedding.



Here are the sites to Ortho, Depo and the nuva ring.



http://www.orthotricyclen.com/



http://www.depoprovera.com/index.asp



http://www.nuvaring.com/Consumer/index.a...
If you start taking the pill on the first day of your period, it will start working in less than 1 week. I personally think pills are the best option for me. I didn't have any side effects while I was on in for 5 years. I was also worried that I wouldn't be able to get pregnant right after I get off the pill...but I got pregnant a week after I got off so if you are ready to have child you can just get off and try to have a baby. However I've heard about women getting pregnant while on the pill. If you are taken correctly at the same time everyday, it's 98% effective.
What I have found to work the best is a Copper IUD. Your doctor inserts it, and you never have to worry about it again, and it starts working right away. You simply go back to your doctor and have it taken out if would like to have a child, other than that it can stay inside of you for 10 years. Very effective, and little to no side effects.
IUD if your insurance will cover it. If not, they run about $500. You will most likely stop getting your period withing 6 months, although you may have some heavy bleeding at the beginning. The IUD stays in place for 5 years and can be removed at any time.
go to the doctor. birth control patches are good. you only have to apply them once a week.get a IUD intrauterine device). My best Friend has one and it is good for 10 years. It can be pulled out at anytime and it can take up to a year to get pregnant. Please if you are not ready for pregnancy do something. Depo shot can be effective and you r period will stop(at least most women's period do). Birth control pills are good too but with antibiotics it can stop working and you need a barrier method. I never used nor known someone to use the nuva ring ( a ring that is inserted in the vagina) but it looks like it would fall out.
I was always on the pill, the only other contraceptive that i ever used were condoms. My doctor and pharmacist say to wait 2 weeks for the pill to be effective, but a month is better. So if you start it now, you will be fine for your wedding night. If this is a first for both of you, you dont want to be fighting with a condom, you might not get the job done...hehe. good luck, and see your doctor for the pill, you dont want to be stressed out on your wedding night, and you can always use a condom if you are worried that the pill isn't working yet. If your anything like my husband and I you wont even need to worry about it. By the time we got to the hotel, we were so tired, it waited until morning. ;)

Does anyone know of any websites that can tell you about a period being late after just getting off

i got off the pill like a month and a half ago and had my period the 10-16 of july and now im a week late and had a egg white gooy stuff when i wiped. i just need some info on just getting off the pill and stuff. plese help all you can thanks



Does anyone know of any websites that can tell you about a period being late after just getting off the pill?sheet music



Well, once you stop taking birth control, it takes your body a while to get re adjusted functioning without the pill. It is very common to miss or be late the first period you are suppose to have after you stop taking birth control. BUT there is a possibility that you may be pregnant, so you should take a pregnancy test just too be sure. Go to yahoo and side effects of stopping birth control. Good luck, best wishes, and lots and lots of baby dust to you!!!!!!!

One of my employees is getting married and quitting and has started to underperform, come late, wast

one of my employees is getting married and is moving to another state on the other coast. she is leaving the job in 2 weeks she has now started to come late and becoming inefficient regularly, when asked how should I treat you -she says - write me up. how should i tackle the situation without causing a revolt as the other employees see that this particular employee is taking undue advantage. should the employee be written up/fired or should i just let her enjoy the last two weeks and wait for her to quit?



One of my employees is getting married and quitting and has started to underperform, come late, waste time?headache



Pay her the two weeks and release her - this is a common practice since that person is in a sense a detriment to everyone else - unless you require her services to ensure a smooth transition of operations when she leaves - show her the door and yell out "Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!"



One of my employees is getting married and quitting and has started to underperform, come late, waste time?paramount theater opera theater



pay her her last two weeks and show her the door.
If she is not doing you any good then get rid of her, anyone that has a problem with that doesn't care about your position in the company so why be concerned with theirs? Tell her that she has been a distraction and that you will do her a favor by giving her more time to deal with things in her personal life!
It is an ethical question. If she wished a good referance, talk to her about her tardiness and inefficiency. She already said "write me up", then do it. If it continues, write her up again. If necessary you may have to fire her, it is up to you as the employer to set the standard of work ethics in your business for all your employees.
Fire her. Her attitude is unacceptable. She needs to have it in her record that she was terminated from her last job for poor attitude and unsatisfactory performance, so the next time she goes looking for a job she won't be able to use you or your company as a reference. You're not being a hard@$$ -- she has earned a pink slip. Kick her to the curb.
I would sit her down and tell her that the consequences of being fired for due cause is no unemployment insurance payments and a black mark on her job history with no recomendations forthcoming. Then I would proceed to put a written reprimand in her personnel folder. Being a short-timer does not mean she can take advantage of her employer and fellow co-workers.
If she hasn't given her formal notice then fire her immediately and send her home with two weeks pay.



If she has given notice then firing her immediately probably isn't worth the trouble, I'd simply send her home for the remainder of her tenure with you. Pay her for the time but make it known that she won't be getting a reference from you. She's screwed when she tries to get another job and your other employees will understand downside to trying the same stunt.
Write her up/ fire her. Remember, this also serves as an example if another employee gives in their resignation in the future, you don't want your employees thinking that just because they are quitting they can act up. The whole point in the 2 weeks notice is so that you have time to find a replacement. If she's not working like she should, there is no reason for you to keep her there and pay her for it. You already gave her warning, and she had the audacity to respond that way. She'll regret her behavior when she loses 2 weeks pay.

I was always used to be regular with my periods but since 3 months getting periods late by 8 to 10 d

when getting late for my periods , always think that this time i may be pregnant and then i ended up having heavy and painful periods every time. Me and my husband are very much active in our sex life , but still unable to concieve after 1 year of marriage. We both really want a child. Kindly please tell me that could they be miscarriage or i have started having irregular periods?



I was always used to be regular with my periods but since 3 months getting periods late by 8 to 10 days.?plays



Are you having any work-related stress lately? Cos this is one of the main reason that is causing delay in period... My previous work was very fast pace and stressful which cause my period cycle to change 35-40days.. doc recommend me to switch to slower pace job and I did.. now my period is back to usual 31-32days. Since both of you have been ttc for 1yr, have you consider seeking professional help?



I was always used to be regular with my periods but since 3 months getting periods late by 8 to 10 days.?opera ticket opera theater



same thing with me.



actually



but i don't want to be pregnant



im only 16...
If it is miscarriage,you should have know that by having a pregnancy hpt.i heard a lot of similar stories and its not pregnancy. You cycle just start to mess up due to hormonal imbalance which provenly common among women who ttc.
Same thing happening to me because of stress... i have been ttc for 7 months... had a miscarriage at 3 months last year.... now I am going 2 doc... he said due 2 stress after i was checked for PCOS and checking my hormone levels.... This month i am on clomid and doc gave me a shot of pregnyl and asked us to try... we have tried.... hope i get pregnant soon.... u should go to a doctor and do the tests
My periods changed, quite suddenly, when I was in my early 30s. Just like that! One month I was having a 5-day period every 28 days, the next month I was getting 3 or 4 days of spotting before a 3 days period, and a 25-day cycle. Strange. Once it changed, it stayed like that (I'm now 37) but my fertility is still fine. I'm TTC and I know that I ovulate because of my CM and BBTs.



You might like to try FertilityFriend.com or another charting website. I discovered with FF.com that I ovulate REALLY early in my cycle (the past 2 months it's been as early as day 10) so knowing that kind of thing is very important. We've changed our BD pattern accordingly and BD from day 8-12 now, instead of the usual suggestion for most women of day 12-16. If I hadn't known more about ovulation I could have TTC for years and years and there's no way I'd have become pregnant!



I don't think your situation is from miscarriage as it's becoming a repeated pattern; I think your hormones simply changed and that happens a lot. Good luck with TTC! xoxox
change of menstrual cycle is usually hormonal imbalance due to stress..same thing here, so relax a bit %26amp; goodluck!

 
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